FWB: Friends with Benefits App

Lapho abantu beza bezozama ukuqomisana ku-inthanethi, ngikholwa ukuthi iningi labo lijwayelene nesitayela sokuqomisana esidumile esingabangane abanezinzuzo. Kodwa abantu abaningi bangase bazibuze ukuthi bangalukhetha kanjani uhlelo lokusebenza oluhle kakhulu lokuthandana ukuze baxhumane nabangane bendawo ngezinzuzo. Uhlelo lokusebenza lwe-FWB lungenye yezinhlelo zokusebenza eziphezulu zokuqomisana eziku-inthanethi zabantu abangashadile nabashadile abafuna ubudlelwano obungenazintambo ezinamathiselwe. Iwuhlelo lokusebenza olubalulekile lwe-hookup oluvamile lwabantu abadala abangashadile ukuba babe nezingxoxo ezingahleliwe nabantu abasha eduze. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uzofuna uthando lwakho lweqiniso kulolu hlelo lokusebenza lokuthandana lwe-FWB noma ufuna nje ukwenza abangane abahle futhi ube nokuxhuma lapha, uhlelo lokusebenza lwe-FWB lungahlangabezana nezidingo zakho.

Njengenye yezindawo ezithandwa kakhulu zokuhlangana nokuqomisana eziku-inthanethi zabantu abangashadile abanomqondo ovulekile, uhlelo lokusebenza lwe-FWB lukunikeza isevisi enhle yokuthola abangani abadala, esiza abangashadile baxhumane nabaxhumanisi bendawo noma abatholi abangani abadala. Uma uzwile ulwazi oluthile mayelana nohlelo lokusebenza lwe-FWB kubangani bakho, futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo ucacile mayelana nokuthi yini ofuna ukuyithola kulolu hlelo lokusebenza lokuhlanganisa abantu abadala, uzokwazi-ke ukuthi uhlelo lokusebenza lwe-FWB luyipharadesi labantu abangashadile futhi ungahlangana nakanjani. ngomentshisi ofanele ongahlangabezana nezidingo zakho. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uzoba nolwazi oluhlukile lwe-FWB ngaphandle kwezintambo ezinamathiselwe abangani.

Uma ungakacaci ngomehluko phakathi kohlelo lokusebenza lwe-FWB nezinye izinhlelo zokusebenza zokuphola nezingosi zokuxhumanisa? Nazi zimi kanje. Uma uzizwa unesithukuthezi mayelana nobudlelwano bendabuko bokuthandana nomuntu oyedwa, wamukelekile ukubamba iqhaza kuhlelo lokusebenza lwe-FWB lapho uzoba nesipiliyoni esiyingqayizivele sokuhlangana nabangane bendawo ngezinzuzo. Uhlelo lokusebenza lwe-FWB luhlose ukunikeza amathuba amaningi okuthandana ngangokunokwenzeka ukuze uhlangabezane nokufanelana kwakho kweqiniso, wenze abangane abasha, futhi wandise inethiwekhi yakho evamile yokuxhumana nabantu. Kusho ukuthi awukwazi ukuhlangana nezingoma zasendaweni zothando kuphela, kodwa futhi nabangane abanomqondo ovulekile ngaphandle kobudlelwane obunamathele. Ngamanye amazwi, uyakwazi ukuswayipha emhlabeni wonke ukuze uthole umuntu omthandayo ngokuhambisa iminwe yakho kukhibhodi. Ngokuphambene, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi abangashadile bendawo noma abangani, bangakhuluma nawe futhi uma uzimisele ukwenza lokho. Nokho, leli phuzu elikhulu lincike ohlelweni lokuma oluguquguqukayo lohlelo lokusebenza lwe-FWB, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uya kuphi, i-FWB ivunyelwe ukufinyelela indawo yakho yamanje, ekulungele ukukusiza ukuthi uthole abangani abasha eduze. Zonke lezi zilula zenza ukuphola kwakho kuyingqayizivele, futhi ungaba nomuzwa wokuthi awusoze wahlangabezana nezinkinga zokuthandana noma ukudideka nhlobo ngemva kokukhetha i-FWB, igcina imali eningi yokuqomisana nayo.

Yize i-FWB iwuhlelo lokusebenza lokuqomisana labo bonke abangashadile abangajoyina mahhala, iwuhlelo lokusebenza oluvikelekile lokuqomisana. Akufanele ukhathazeke ngobumfihlo bakho nokuphepha lapha, ngoba inethimba elihle kakhulu lokuvikela ubumfihlo bakho ngokusebenzisa izinqubo eziqinile zokuvikela. Isibonelo, uhlelo lokusebenza lwe-FWB luzongeza ukufiphala ezithombeni zakho, lufihle isithombe sakho, ikheli kanye nemilayezo yokuthandana ukuze kuvikelwe ubumfihlo bakho. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abanye abantu bangabuka okuqukethwe kwakho kuhlelo lokusebenza lwe-FWB, kodwa akekho ongakuthumela umlayezo uze uvumele isicelo sakhe. Okukongela isikhathi esiningi nezinkinga ngendlela.

I-FWB iwuhlelo lokusebenza oluphambili lokuqomisana lapho ungaba nguwe futhi uhlangane nabangane bakho abafanelekile ngezinzuzo ngasikhathi sinye. Ngikholelwa ukuthi umgomo wakho uwukwakha ubuhlobo bangempela bokuthandana, futhi inqobo nje uma ungakwazi ukwethembeka ngenhliziyo yakho futhi uhlale uqinile kulokho okufunayo, ungabi namahloni ngobuhlobo njengabangane abanezinzuzo, i-FWB iyinkundla engcono kakhulu ukwenza lokhu futhi izozama konke okusemandleni ayo ukukwanelisa.

Ingabe unentshisekelo kubudlelwano be-FWB? Uma kunjalo, usalindeni? Ungabe usangabaza, vele uye ukuyoyilanda futhi ujabulele uhambo lwakho lokuthandana.