Uhlelo lokusebenza lokuqala lokuthandana kwabamhlophe abamnyama lokufana kwezinhlanga ezahlukene.
Ngaphansi kwekhulu leminyaka elidlule, ukuqomisana kwezinhlanga ezahlukene kwakuyinto obungakhulumi ngayo, futhi into ongayifihla uma uthanda umuntu webala elihlukile. Kwakukhona izindawo ezimbalwa ongaya kuzo ngokuphepha ngaphandle kokubangela uhlobo oluthile lwehlazo, futhi babembalwa nakakhulu abantu ababezimisele ukulalela ngokuqonda.
Mhlawumbe kwakuyisigqi nokuluhlaza okugcwele phansi kokuzijabulisa kwasebusuku. Mhlawumbe kwakuwumphakathi ophuma Ekuwohlokeni Okukhulu Kwezomnotho, nokubekezelelana okwengeziwe okuhambisana nezindlela zabo zokuphila zokuceba. Mhlawumbe kwakuyisibindi sababhali, izikhulumi nosaziwayo ababekhankasela amalungelo abantu, kodwa ngawo-1960, ukuqomisana kwezinhlanga kancane kancane kwamukeleka.
Izikhathi ezishintshayo zaletha ezazo izinkinga. Ngisho nalapho abasebenzi behlanganiswa kakhulu, nabancane nabesifazane abangena ezindimeni ezake zenzelwe abamhlophe, abesilisa abangochwepheshe, nezindawo zomphakathi zayeka ukuhlukanisa noma ukwenqaba izinkonzo kwabancane, ukuqomisana kwezinhlanga kwakusenzima. Kwakuyinkathi yesivumelwano esivamile ngamalungelo omphakathi, kodwa babengekho abaningi kakhulu phakathi kwabazali Beminyaka Yokucindezeleka ababekulungele ukuletha ukuhlanganiswa kobuhlanga ekhaya.
Umbono Weminyaka Eyinkulungwane
Iminyaka yokuqala engalungile yokuhlanganiswa kwezinhlanga yaqala ukuqomisana kwezinhlanga. Namuhla, amaphesenti ayisikhombisa abantu athi amagugu ezinhlanga ezixubile. Inani likhula ngokushesha, njengoba iningi labantu okwaxoxwa naye lisho ukuziqhenya ngemvelaphi yabo yezinhlanga eziningi futhi bathi ifa labo libenze bavuleleka kakhudlwana kwamanye amasiko.
Amaphesenti angu-7 aphakeme kakhulu kunangeminyaka yawo-1970, lapho iphesenti elilodwa kuphela elathi linesizinda sezinhlanga ezixubile, kodwa abahlaziyi banomuzwa wokuthi leli nani empeleni licishe libe ingxenye yamaphesenti angempela, njengoba abaningi abayizinhlanga ezixubile bethi bohlanga olulodwa kuphela. Iningi lalabo abathi uhlanga olulodwa kuphela baneminyaka ephakathi noma ngaphezulu.
Kusukela ku-Age kuya endaweni yesifunda
Uma umncane, kuba lula ukuthola umaqondana wokuqomisana kwezinhlanga. Isethi yeminyaka engamashumi amabili kuya kwamashumi amathathu ubudala ngokuvamile ayikhululekile futhi kakade inengxube ebanzi yabangane bamasiko amaningi kanye nezinhlanga eziningi. Ukubekezelelana, nokho, ikakhulukazi emndenini nasemphakathini, kungahluka kakhulu kuye ngokwezibalo zabantu. Ezindaweni eziningi, ikakhulukazi izifunda ebezingakwamukeli ngokomlando ukuthandana kwezinhlanga ezixubile, kungase kungabe kusaba khona ukucwaswa, kodwa ukungqubuzana kwamasiko kusekhona. Umndeni, kanye nedethi yakho, ingase ibe nemibono eqinile mayelana nezinto ozithandayo kanye nokuziphatha kwakho.
Ukweqa imigoqo lapho imibono eyiphutha yobuhlanga isekhona kuthatha isibindi nokubekezela. Imibono yezinhlanga ishintsha ngokushesha kodwa hhayi imibono yobuhlanga. Ungase uhlangabezane nalezo zikhathi zokungakhululeki zomuntu ophuma endleleni yakhe ukuze angakucasuli, izinkathazo eziphathelene nokuziphatha okufanele, noma izinsolo nokuziphatha okugodliwe.
Ngaphandle uma uthandana nomuntu onesizinda somlando esifanayo ncamashi, isimo senhlalo nenkolo, usazophonselwa inselelo ngamasiko osuku lwakho. Ezinhlanga eziningi, amasiko angaphezulu kombala, isimo noma imvelaphi yokhokho. Inkolo ingase ibe nethonya elibalulekile ekuphileni kwabo, ngisho noma bengasasho lokho abakuthandayo, njengoba beyozinika isikhathi sezindinganiso ezingokwesiko zomkhaya wabo.
Kodwa lokho kuyingxenye yalokho okushiwo ukuqomisana kwezinhlanga ezahlukene. Kuyithuba lokubheka kabanzi umhlaba osizungezile, ukuthuthukisa ukuxhumana kwethu nabanye, nokufunda ngamasiko namasiko ahlukahlukene angacebisa ukuphila kwethu kwansuku zonke.
Uhlelo lokusebenza lombala omhlophe omnyama luvulekele zonke abangashadile, izitabane, izitabane noma abathandana nabobulili obubili, yonke iminyaka, intsha, engaphezu kuka-40, abaneminyaka engaphezu kuka-50 abavuthiwe noma abadala, zonke izinhlanga, abamnyama, abamhlophe, abaxubile, ama-Asian, amaNdiya, ama-Hispanic, ama-Mexican, ama-Latina. ., lapha uhlelo lwethu lokusebenza lunezingoma ezingaphezu kuka-500,000 zokuthola okufanayo kwakho. Joyina mahhala namuhla ukuze uhlangane nabantu abangabodwana basendaweni.
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