"Mina, indoda evamile eneminyaka ephakathi, nginomsebenzi ohloniphekile edolobheni. Ngokungazelelwe, namuhla nje, umnyango wezisebenzi zenkampani ungixoshile. Ngicabanga ngonkosikazi onakekela izingane ezimbili ekhaya nabazali bedolobhana lakithi , mina ngizizwa ngicindezelekile kakhulu."
Lona umdlalo [wokulingisa] + [umbhalo] okhawula ukuqala kokungasebenzi kwabantu abaneminyaka ephakathi nendawo. Yonke into emdlalweni yenzeka ngokungahleliwe futhi inezinga eliphezulu lenkululeko. Ungadlala ngendlela othanda ngayo, ngazo zonke izinhlobo zeziphetho ezahlukene. Uzodlala indima yendoda eneminyaka ephakathi engasebenzi, eqala uhambo olunonya kodwa olumangalisayo lomphakathi ukuze uziphilise umndeni wabane kanye nempahla ebolekiwe yezigidi. Ngaphandle kwebhilidi lamahhovisi angu-996, kunezimpungushe ongakaze wazi ngaphambili! Ihlathi! Umthetho! kodwa!
Ungahlola ngokukhululeka edolobheni, futhi uhlangane nabantu abangahleliwe bazo zonke izinhlobo nokunye. Inani elikhulu lemicimbi engahleliwe kanye nama-NPC ahlukile azokukhombisa injabulo nosizi lwabantu abahlukene abavela kuzo zonke izigaba zokuphila edolobheni. Ngabangane obenzayo, ungathola indlela yokwenza imali, ungashintshanisa izinto nabo, futhi ube nethuba elithile lokwandisa abathintwayo abengeziwe. Ukuhlangana okuhlukahlukene edolobheni kunethuba lokusiza ukuthuthukisa ukuxoxisana komuntu, ukusesha kanye namanye amakhono, nokunikeza ugqozi lomsebenzi onzima olandelayo.
Ungenza imali ngezindlela ezahlukahlukene, vele, imibundu, ubungozi, kanye nembuyiselo kuhluke kakhulu. Awusoze wantula izindlela zokwenza imali ngokuthengisa amandla akho omzimba, kodwa iholo lakho liphansi kakhulu; ungathola izindlela ezilula zokwenza imali, kodwa udinga ukuzisebenzisa ngokucophelela, ngoba ngokuvamile zidela izinto zakho eziyigugu; uma unokuqongelela okukudala, Ungenza okwenziwayo okuncane, kodwa lokhu kuvame ukuhambisana nezingozi; uma unemali eningi, ungase uzame izimpahla zezimali ezinobungozi obuphezulu ezinembuyiselo eqhumayo. "Ibhayisikili" noma "ukunethezeka imoto" kuyindaba yokucabanga nje!
Umndeni wakho uyohlale uwusekela oluqinile, futhi ukusinda kwawo futhi "kuwumthwalo" omnandi. Impushana yobisi engenisiwe yomntwana, amakilasi emfundo yasekuqaleni, isikhwama somfazi esithandwa isikhathi eside ... umzimba wabazali bakho nawo uyinkinga yakho. Iziza ezihlukahlukene ezingahleliwe zomndeni weminyaka ephakathi, noma umunyu, imfudumalo, noma ukungabi nakuzisiza, zilinde ukuthi uhlole ngayinye ngayinye. Lapho usucebe, ubuhlobo bomndeni wakho buzoshintsha kanjani?
Njengempilo yangempela, ungasetha umgomo wokuphila womlingiswa oyinhloko ukukhokha imali mboleko, ukwenza umndeni ukhathazeke ngokudla nezimpahla zokugqoka, ukuba yinkosi yokuxhumana, ukuba sohlwini lwengcebo, njalonjalo. Hlela impilo yakho ngokukhululeka ngemuva kokungasebenzi, makabe isiqalo sendaba emnandi!
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Aga 24, 2023